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ulasanku adalah pdapat ku.sape x setuju,xpyh bising k.klu setuju,ok
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
(btul.klu nak,smue bleh.bl xnak,mcm2 alasan)
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
(hmm.kdg2 kite pk lelaki akan berubah pas kawen.tp klu dh mmg tu la habit n perangainya,rsnye pas kawen pun xkan berubah.kan?)
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
(aku pun alami hal ni.kdg2 tensen teramat sgt bl pk katne silapnya)
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
(kdg2 kite pk die mmpu bahagiakan kite,tp pas couple br tahu,hampeh)
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
(btul.klu dh sampai berani naik tangan tu,aku x rs pompuan tu layak dbuat cmtu)
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
(tp pompuan biasalah.walaupun suke pk negatif,tp dlm hati dorg sbnarnye diorg suke pk positif)
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
(tp klu lelaki taknak dgr cmne?pompuan gak tensen sorg2)
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
(btul ni.aku setuju.aku pun x pna citer sgalanya.xsampai 50 % pun)
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
(mmg pun.klu kejenye asik nk merendah2kan kite jer,perlu ker dlayan elok2 org cmtu?sorry k.pompuan tu mgkin ade lg byk kelebihan tp die je mls nk merendah2kan si lelaki)
Never borrow someone else's man.
(x bgus pinjam2 ni)
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
(mslhnya si pompuan x suke kene pukul,tp lelaki wat gak.cmne eh?)
All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
"You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. "
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
(mmg betul.klu mnta hal2 y simple pun x dpt bg.watpe nk commit sgtkan.)
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.